Brick Lane
by Monica Ali
★
Nazneen is a young woman living with her family in
Bangladesh and dreaming of her future. Soon she’s shipped to England where
she’s married off to an older man. Her life becomes so small, confined almost
entirely to their apartment. Her husband is gross and selfish and treats her
like an employee. I understand it’s an arranged marriage, but it’s an awful
situation. There’s no physical abuse, just a continual wearing down of her
spirit. Her casual acceptance of her situation is heartbreaking and it was hard
for me to identify with her.
When she finally has an affair you honestly don’t even
care about the man she is sleeping with, it’s more about the fact that she’s
finally done one tiny thing for herself. Even then it seems to make her more
miserable than before. She also has two daughters who grow up in England and
have a hard time embracing their parents’ culture. They are children of
England, not Bangladesh and that divide makes it difficult for them to
understand their mother’s decision to stay in a loveless marriage.
Part of the book consists of letters back and forth
between Nazneen and her sister. Hasina ran away from home and married for love,
but her life was not a happy one. I think the main purpose of that plot was to
show Nazneen that things could always be worse, but at least Hasina chose her
own life.
**SPOILERS**
I felt like we are waiting for something to happen for
the entire book and then nothing does. It’s this uphill slog that you think
will end with an incredible view, but when you reach the top there’s nothing to
see. She never goes to see her sister, she never gets caught in the affair,
etc. She just decides to stay at home when her husband leaves. That was good in
its own way, but there was no real resolution.
**SPOILERS OVER**
The fact that I couldn’t identify with the main character
wasn’t a deal breaker for me in anyway. I love learning about different
cultures. I love seeing the struggle that comes from immigrating to a new
country and trying to understand their customs. The problem was that Nazneen
didn’t seem interested in anything. I felt like I couldn’t root for her when
she couldn’t even root for herself.
BOTTOM LINE: Geez I struggled with this one. It’s such a
slow moving novel. I felt like I was living through those years of stifling
boredom with Nazneen, and not in the good way. There is some beautiful writing,
but for me it wasn’t enough to balance out the slog through the story.
